When he's frustrated

So I need to remember when R is frustrated and offers to spank me, my answer should be "No, thank you." He had received calls to go to Joplin, MO, this is where the tornado hit and destroyed a third of the town (so far the death count is 89), but since he had 4 assignments set up for Monday morning he couldn't go. He was trying to find other photographers to go in his place and I was trying to help by finding phone numbers, sending text (because he doesn't text) and send facebook messages ( no facebook page either).

Got one agency taken care off and in the mean time, another one called for him to go. So the search was on again to find another photographer (one that he trusts to do a good job) to go. By this time it was very late in the evening and we hadn't had dinner, showered and I think he just really needed to take his frustration out on someone or something - my backside.

When he offered to spank me, I knew that you needed to work off some frustration so of course I said yes. He at least let us shower before he started in on me. Wow, can he smack when he wants too. Normally he is gentler but not Sunday night. He worked out his needs on my backside, back, thighs. He didn't leave any bruises but I'm still a little tender. I'm glad I could help him relieve his stress but next time I might suggest something else.

The Dye Job

So I dyed my hair Saturday morning while R was out of town. He kept pointing out the few gray hairs I had in my hair, so I thought fine I'll get rid of them. I didn't want something drastic or noticeable just something to cover the few gray hairs.

Now I have never dyed my hair before, back in the early 80's when "frosting" was all the thing, I did have that done. So dying my hair was a new experience for me. Boy it is messy and smelly. Ruined a towel from the dye. Rubbed this form into my dry hair and then had to let it set for 25 minutes. What are you suppose to do for 25 minutes with dye in your hair? If it touches anything it will turn it whatever color you are dying your hair. So I'm walking around the house naked for 25 minutes, the cats don't even want anything to do with me because I stink.

Finally I get to rinse my hair out, I decide the kitchen sink is the best place to do this, as I don't want this dye in the shower or on the rest of my body. The little that got in the bathroom sink was a bitch to get clean. Hair rinsed (and I have a lot of it- it's very long, down to the middle of my thighs). I can finally shower and see what it's going to look like.

I'm a little shocked when I look in the mirror, my hair looks black. My hair is dark brown. But it doesn't look bad. I dry it a little with the hair dryer and go meet my Mom. She doesn't even notice. I finally have to tell her. She says it looks great.

R gets home late Saturday afternoon, I know he is tired. He doesn't say anything. Nothing all day Sunday. Finally Sunday night while I'm getting ready for bed, I ask him, do you notice anything different about me?

R says , "No."

I tell him I colored my hair.

R says, "Why'd you do that? You didn't have that many gray hairs."

I really wanted to smack him at this point. He was the one the kept pointing them out to me.

Men!

The Camper 2

So we had said we would buy this camper and we said we would stop looking at them but Monday night I get home from work and

"R" says "I found your prefect camper."

I said, "I thought we weren't looking anymore?"

R "Well, we aren't."

Me, "Then why did you look again?"

R, "I couldn't help myself."

Me, "So are we still buying the other camper?"

R, "Yes, this one is to heavy."

Me, "Then why did you tell me about it?"

R, "Because it had everything you wanted."

Me - I gave him the look and excused myself to do my normal after work things.

So yesterday, I looked at campers on line and found one that had everything we wanted (okay, so not everything - it didn't have the outside storage R wanted). Since he was a smart ass to me on Monday I sent him the links. When I got home last night, he had called on them. We went and looked at one of them last night and decided to buy it instead of the 1st one.

The 1st camper owner said no big deal, they had other offers more than what we had offered but after they had excepted ours so they are going to get a better deal also. So Saturday we go to pick up our new used camper. And I got dinner out of the deal last night too.

I have a feeling I'm going to have to pay for being a smart ass tonight. My ass my be tender on Friday or at least one can hope. LOL

A camper or two

So we looking for a camper (again). We decided a little over a year ago that we weren't going to camp any more so sold your travel trailer and tow vehicle. Now we've decided that we made a bad decision and want a camper again. But since we don't have the same tow vehicle we can't get a travel trail so we're back to pop-up's (yuck - I'll miss my personal potty).

We've been looking for about a month and a half now and found two last night that would work. We put a deposit down on the first one. And then went to look at the second having already made up our minds that we weren't getting it. But you now how that goes. It was in great condition, a little smaller but had the outside storage that "R" (that's what I've decide to call my husband) wants and has a electric lift system. The bed is only a double so we'll be a little tight sleeping but according to R I take my half out of the middle any way so it doesn't matter. LOL

Neither camper is ready to be picked up as they both have to be cleaned and/or repairs down to them but we have to make a decision this morning. I really hate making rush decisions. And R is never one to make them. I know we don't need a camper until the end of June but we don't want to wait until then to get one.

R told me if I sent him another truck link he wouldn't spank me anymore. LOL I told him that's what he gets for sleeping in until 10 am and not calling me at 9 like he normally does. Some of us have to get up and go to work early every day of the work week.

Hopefully, I'll get a spanking tonight as he is leaving on an overnight trip Friday and won't be home until late Saturday. I don't like it when he is gone. I get really horny and can't seem to keep the vibrator after from my clit. I don't know what I would do if he told me I couldn't touch myself while he was gone. He'd have to tie me up because I don't think I could do it.

Fixing Dinner = a spanking

So I put a brisket on Monday night since it takes so long to cook (love crock pots). Husband was home most of the day on Tuesday and he had to smell it all day. LOL But he knew he was going to get a wonderful dinner. He told me since he had to smell it all day I was getting a spanking. Yummy!

I need to find all those recipe books with overnight or all day long crock pot recipes so I can make him smell dinner all day, now that I know that equals a spanking. Not a bad start to the week.

1st spanking party and other stuff

So we went to our first spanking party April 29th. It was fun. There were a lot of people there and there was some spanking going on. We talked and laughed with a bunch of people. My hubby did spank me in a dark corner of the room late in the evening. I was giggling at first, I couldn't help myself. I didn't think we would ever go to anything like this kind of party.

We're going to the Kinky Kamp Out in June. That was another big shocker for me. I didn't think the Hubby would go for going to a clothing optional camp out. I bought the tickets last night so we're committed to going. I'm excited about going but nerves too. I've never been naked in public. Glad it is clothing optional since I'm not sure either of us are ready to strip off and bare it all. Guess we'll find out at the end of June. LOL

In the mean time, I'm trying to get the old body into better shape. I've lost 18 pounds since November of 2010 so that is a start but I have a long way to go. Took me a while to put it one so it will take a while to take it off. Love that I figured out I can read my kindle on the treadmill, so I'm more inclined to go on it and workout. Would love to loose another 20 pounds by the end of June but I think that is pushing it. Oh well, nothing says I have to take off my clothes.