Thursday, February 23, 2012

Work Rant

So my company had a meeting yesterday at a brewery.  Which is nice if you like beer (I don't).  But over the last couple of years, the company has also laid off (such an over used term) the older people and hired much younger people.  So as I sat in the meeting yesterday, 2 young 5' 5" 20 somethings, that couldn't weight more than 110 lbs a piece (and yes this is relevant) sat in front of me. 

As the President of our company got up to talk, he joked about "the more you drink the better this will be".  I didn't think it was very funny.  Knowing that every person sitting in that room had to get into a car after the meeting.  

In a hour and half the two girls in from of me, drank 4 beers a piece. There is no way their were under the legal limit to get behind the wheel of a car to drive.  And those are just the beers they drank during the meeting, we were there an hour before the meeting started, so who knows how many they had in that hour.  I didn't watch the news last night, so I don't know if they killed anyone when they drove home or back to work, if they had to come back here.  Or got pulled over for a DUI.  Yes, I'm writing this from my work computer because I felt so strongly about it I couldn't wait until I got home to get it off my chest.  I did say something to my boss as we were leaving the place yesterday, how I didn't think they should be driving.  She said maybe they rode with someone.  I don't think they did. 

I don't drink very much.  In fact, I had 1/2 a glass of wine and then switched to water yesterday.  I won't let R drink and drive, even with 2 beers and at 6' tall - I drive. 

You would think with all the companies that got sued back in the 80's and 90's from their employees getting drunk at company parties, mine would have a clue but I guess not.  Stupid Stupid Stupid

Monday, February 20, 2012

A letter to your HOH

 So Mick at Husbandy Touch was asked by several people to write letter to their husband's about DD and HOH, he declinded their requests but did write this http://husbandlytouch.blogspot.com/ .  It is a beautiful written letter to the male would be HOH explaining why their woman/mate wants/needs them to spank them.  Thank you Mick!

I personally forwarded it on to R so it would help him understand me better.  Of course, he was a total smart ass, came out of his office, smacked me on the ass and says, "Where's my breakfast, woman?"

Think were going to have to talk about it some more and we are planning to do that today.  He said he thinks he already knows what I need his help with but we do need to set down and talk.  Since I had a bunch of ladies over yesterday for a girls day, we're going to be talking today. 

Here's some of the things I need his help with:

Exercising - I normally come home after working all day, change clothes, plot my ass on the sofa for 1/2 hour, cook dinner if I have too and then spend the rest of the evening on the sofa watch TV or reading.

Planning menus - every day it is the same thing - What do you want for dinner? I don't know.  I asked you first.  I need his help in planning the menu for the week so we don't have this problem every night.

Eating healthy (both of us) - we both need to loose weight. Yes, I've lost 15 pounds of the last year but I've got a lot more to go.  I've even thought about telling him how much I weight so he'll understand that I need to loose weight.  I think at this point I may weight more than him or about the same.  I'm 5'3" tall.  R is 6' tall.  I should not weight the same as him.

Making sure the house doesn't get cluttered up.  I have a tendency to not put the mail away and let it pile up.  Only putting it away when I know we are having people over.  I know that if I put it away each day then I wouldn't have piles, the house would stay nice and it wouldn't look messy. 

Going through the basement and getting rid of things.  This one to be tough as we are both pack rats.  I don't know why I keep some of the things I do,  I have started getting rid of things (I know that no one will want my high school or college papers) so why have I kept them?  Trash.  Lost of trash.

Then there is all the garage sale stuff.  Yes, we almost of a room full of garage sale stuff, so I have tried to get rid of stuff but I have to wait for my Mom to have a garage sale (we're a live people wouldn't be able to get up the drive way) I could be very entertaining for us to see them try.  LOL 

So I hope to have a productive day of discussions and setting up rules for progress.  Wish me luck.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Happy Valentines Day!

Hope you and yours have a wonderful day.  If you don't have someone special in your life at the moment - remember you should get something or do something special for yourself - because you are worth it!
hugs,
heather1

Monday, February 13, 2012

Implements

Implements
So is there a specific way they are suppose to be used, not in the usage of them but in the terms of in the order of usage them?  R's favorite implement is the cane and that is what he start with each time.  Since we've both been sick, we have played in several weeks so my back side was very sensitive yesterday.  I wish he would have started with something a little less intense but, of course, that is not my call. 

So what does your Sir/Master or what do you like to start and end with?  Is one thing better than the next or is it personal for each person? 

Thursday, February 9, 2012

A simple suggestive suggestion

A simple suggestive suggestion that's all I made and did it have a big impact.  LOL 

R has been sick, so has been hands off for the last week.  But as I was getting out of the shower and he was getting in, I told him, "to bad you didn't get up here earlier I was going to offer to give you a hand job."  He just growled at me.  I laughed and continued my after shower routine.  While I was drying my hair (now remember I do this bent over with my head down because my hair is so long). R gets out of the shower, dries off and pounces. 

That little suggestion created big things.  He took what he wanted.  He told me it was going to be a quickie but after 1/2 hour, I had to ask if we could kneel on the floor.  Afterward, he said he should be sick more often and I didn't even get a spanking. But he did share his cold with me.  Wonder if I can jump him this Saturday if I'm feeling better, since he told me hands off him until I do.